Friday, July 11, 2008

Sermon On the Mount | MATTHEW 7:7-14 | PRAYING EFFECTIVELY

I.  Introduction:

            Today we are going to talk about prayer again.  Jesus' instructions about prayer and not lofty but down-to-earth.  He seems to anticipate

our practical problems in prayer.  In this section, He ties prayer, which is our relating to Heaven, very much to our relationships here on earth.

            Q  Do you know people who do not pray, do you know why?

            Q  Do you know how many educated people (non-believers) explain prayer (like Freud)?  What are their theories?

            Q  Do you know people who believe that prayer simply does not work?

            Q  Could share with us a time when you could have did not pray for something that was very important in your life?

            Q  Why do we Christians sometimes not pray, even when we are in a tight spot?

            Note:  Quickly, honestly share a couple of times when you did not pray when you should have?  Time them why.

            Q  Are their times when you did not pray?  Why?

            Note:  Jesus is going to address some of the reasons we do not pray....

 

II.  Instructions on Prayer:  Matthew 7:7-12

>>>> Have someone read Matthew 7:7-8

            Q  What do you think Jesus is teaching here?  What is His main point?

               An = He is encouraging us to truly ask for what we want, what we need to find (whether guidance or insight or a certain person) and

what we need opened to us either in the way of insight, opportunity, etc.  Jesus really wants us to ask, seek and knock!!!!

            Q  Has Jesus lied?  Has He told the truth?  Do we always receive, find and have opened to us what we seek?

            Q  Why not?

            Q  Do you think Jesus was aware of our coming or His disciples present experience?

            Q  Did He know these words could wind up causing much doubt or least frustration?

            Q  Why did He do it?

               An = Remember, Jesus is quite intelligent, and aware of how you would react, so now that He has your attention, He is not through

teaching on prayer....

>>>> Have someone read Matthew 7:9-11

            Note:  We have another difficult and fairly complex metaphor here, so we should again unpack what the metaphor means before we

proceed.

            Q  Verse 9 is a rhetorical question asking the person hearing to think or ponder something, what does Jesus want us to ponder?

               An = Do fathers give cruel gifts.  Bread is a reasonable request from the mouth of a child and no father would cruelly give his son a

stone.  The boy is hungary, he cannot eat a stone.

            Q  Verse 10 is another rhetorical question, again asking the listener to think or ponder, what does Jesus want His audience to ponder?

               An = Again, do fathers give their children cruel gifts.  A child asks for fish (for protein) and he will not give him something that is not

only inedible but would bite and possible kill him would he?  To give your child a snake would be cruel indeed.

            Q  Jesus is now applying His double (parallel) metaphor or two rhetorical questions in verse 11, so who does the father represent?  Who

does the child represent?

               An = God is represented by the father and we are represented in the metaphor by the child.  So far, so good....

            Q  What is Jesus telling His audience about God and us?

               An = Good fathers, and God is the ultimate Good Father, do not give their children gifts that would harm them.

            Q  So how does this relate to Jesus teaching on prayer in verses 7-8 and why does He immediately follow His great promises with these

three verses?

               An = He is wisely qualifying His promise.  God would never give us what we ask for in prayer if it would hurt us.  We may ask for

wealth or health and He might know that would hurt us.  Remember Paul?  He was the most successful of ministers, great evangelistic success, he

healed countless people, had great revelations, he could have so easily drifted into pride, so God "gave" Paul a "thorn in the flesh".  Paul prayed three

times and God did answer and the answer was no.  The physical illness, whatever it was, kept Paul from pride and kept Paul spiritually safe.  Jesus loves

Paul and did not want his use as a minister to ruin him.

            Note:  Share an example where you did not receive something you thought was good and later learned God knew better.

            Q  If there someone hear who has had a similar experience?

            Note:  Jesus seems to be boldly encouraging us to ask, seek and knock in verses 7-8 and He is giving us even more reason to be bold in our

asking, seeking and knocking.  Now we can ask, seek or knock with confidence because if we ask for something or seek for something that would harm us

He will filter our prayers.  We cannot hurt ourselves when we pray.  We can come boldly to the throne of grace!  God is intelligent and good.  He

is not a "force" but a "Person" and persons know how to give good and appropriate gifts to those they love.  Ask, seek, knock.  He will answer!

            Note:  One would think the issue of prayer is closed, especially when we read the next verse, but I think Jesus wants us to include verse

12 with the other verses.  Let me show my reasoning and you see what you think....

>>>> Have someone read Matthew 7:12

            Q  Why does Jesus open verse 12 with the word, "therefore" (NASB) (King James), or "so" in (RSV) or (NIV) or (Jerusalem)?  (The greek

indicates the word "therefore" or "so" should be there and all good english translations have it.)

            RQ  Is Jesus seeing verse 12 as a conclusion to what went before this verse?

            Q  What is Jesus saying in this famous "golden rule"?

               An = Treat people like you would like them to treat you this is key in all of the Old Testament (that is what "the Law and the Prophets"

meant in those days).  Jesus is saying be aggressive in goodness, not passive.  Do not obey because you have to, but obey aggressively because you would

like to be treated this way. 

            Q  How does this verse apply to verses 7-11?

               An = We should ask, seek and knock in prayer for others in the same way we would like them to do for ourselves.  Our prayer life should

not just be for ourselves.  It should be done aggressively and confidently for others.  We would like others to pray that way for us.

            Q  Does verse 12 apply to the instructions in verses 1-6, and if so how?

               An = We should judge others in the manner we would like to be judged (7:1-2).  We should correct others after we have seen our own

faults, just like we would like others to do (7:3-5).  We would should correct others with wisdom lest we get hurt just like we would others to be

careful when they correct us and we are as dumb as a dog or dirty as a pig because we would feel horrible if turned and ripped someone (7:6).  They guilt

would be terrible.  If we corrected someone without care and they exploded on us, it would make a good person (presently in a state of "pigness") feel

horrible.  Any good spouse knows this, especially if they have married well, and love their spouse.

            Q  Let me stretch one bit further, does our overly judgmental spirit hinder our prayers?              Q  Does our lack of caring for

others on earth make us unfit to receive gifts from heaven?     Q  Does our inappropriate handling of our neighbor adjust what and how God can give to

us?

 

III.  Partial Conclusion:  Matthew 7:13-14.

            Note:  The next two verse are on different agenda.  They open with a new commandment.  They seem to be both a warning and an

encouragement.

>>>>  Have someone read Matthew 7:13-14.

            Q  What is Jesus saying here?

            Q  What is He saying about the "way to life" that He has been proposing in the last three chapters?

               An = It will not be the "majority" path.  You will be in a "moral minority".

            Q  Do you think this is true among Christians themselves?

            Q  How do you feel about following a path that is not in the "main spring" of humanity or for that matter the "main path" of even the

church?

            Q  Does it scare you or challenge you?

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